Certificate in working with Couples and Other Relationships
This 8-day certificate course is designed for qualified counsellors, psychotherapists or psychologists who would like to become more skilled in working therapeutically with couples and other relationships.
Certificate in working with Couples and other Relationships
Key InformationDates: 4 weekends, 8 days in total (48 CPD hours) Time: 10:00am – 4:30pm Tutor: Cabby Laffy has over 25-years’ experience as training facilitator and psychotherapist with individuals and couples and is author of LoveSex: An Integrative Model for Sexual Education (Karnac 2013). Venue: Spiral Therapy Centre, 2 Shelburne Road, London N7 6DL Fees: £1,200 + VAT = £1,440 payable in full before the start date or by instalments as long as the total is reached before the final weekend of the course. The course fee includes all training materials and the CPD-certificate. Tea, coffee and biscuits are provided during the course. Lunch is not included in the course fee. There are many shops and cafes nearby offering refreshments and lunches.
2018 Autumn intake
2019 Spring intake
This 8-day certificate course, facilitated by Cabby Laffy, is designed for qualified counsellors, psychotherapists or psychologists who would like to become more skilled in working therapeutically with couples and other relationships. Through teaching and experiential work, including role-plays and skills practice you will gain some insights and tools to work with the dynamics of relationships, as well as common issues arising in couple therapy – such as desire, conflict, potential separation, lack of relationship vision, communication blocks, endings.
The course will include an introduction to working with sexually diverse couples, common presenting problems, such as differing sexual desire and managing conflict in relationships, a consideration of the therapeutic meaning of clients’ presenting issues, what may be achievable and a presentation of different models of working with relationships. The programme covers an introduction to psychosexual issues, with a greater emphasis on relational work.
The programme will include:
- Presentations of multiple theories on couple relationships, and material by trainer Cabby Laffy
- Considerations and process for intake, history-taking and assessment, therapeutic process with couples and other relationships
- Practical skills for couple work: using triads, introducing communication skills, conflict resolution, working with different and culture
- Discussion in the full group of the material being presented, including opportunities to ask questions and check understanding.
- Experiential exercises to embed understanding of the material.
Work in small groups (dyads, triads) as skills practice using the taught material.
Theory ✓ Experiential components ✓ Skills Practice ✓
AimsThrough teaching and experiential work, including role-plays and skills practice you will gain some insights and tools to work with the dynamics of a couple client, as well as common issues arising in couple therapy.
Content1. Introduction to working with relationships: Expectations, for therapists and for couples. Awareness of counter transference 2. Beginnings: Assessments. Contracts. History taking. 3. The Dynamics of working in Triads: Triads, Drama Triangle. Psychosocial development. 4. Philosophies and beliefs: Theories about working with relationships. Stages in relationship and life issues. 5. Working with Difference: Sexual diversity. Shame. Transference. 6. Desire, differentiation and conflict: Sexual desire and its connection with differentiation. Managing conflict in the therapy room. 7. Communication: Teaching and modelling Communication skills. Winner’s Triangle and Assertiveness. 8. Endings: Importance of Endings. Review of what you have learnt. This course has a biopsychosocial underpinning – whereby the body’s physiology and the client’s psychological process are considered within the sociological context. This course has a sex-positive philosophy, in which sex has a valid place within therapeutic work.
Assessment & CertificateLearning is absorbed by attendance and participation on the course. There is no assessment other than attendance and participation. Although a reading list is provided, there is no formal requirement for further reading – although additional reading is recommended to enhance your professional development subsequent to the course. We also recommend that anyone undertaking couple therapy seeks supervision from a suitable qualified professional, to support this important area of work.
TutorCabby Laffy has been a facilitator of trainings and workshops since 1991. She has also worked as a psychotherapist with individuals and couples, and a supervisor for individual and couple work, for twenty-five years. She is a UKCP registered and NCP accredited psychotherapist, a COSRT accredited psychosexual therapist, a supervisor, a group facilitator, and a member of PCSR. Cabby’s book LoveSex: An Integrative Model for Sexual Education (Karnac 2013) presents a model for psychosexual health. Cabby is available for one to one and couple therapy, training and supervision. Cabby has created a Homeodynamic Model for Psychosexual Health, which offers an integrative understanding of human relationships and sexuality encompassing the physical, emotional, spiritual, and our social and cultural environment. This approach includes research from neuroscience, complementary and alternative health therapies and cognitive behavioural therapy, and draws from eastern sexual healing practices as well western approaches to psychosexual therapy. The Homeodynamic Model is taught at Cabby’s Centre for Psychosexual Health –www.psychosexualhealth.org.uk – primarily through a two year Diploma in Integrative Psychosexual Therapy. She is an experienced practitioner in her client work and training roles, with a speciality in psychosexual therapy.
Who is this course is designed for
This CPD training is designed for qualified counsellors and psychotherapists who are experienced in working with individual clients, but who wish to become confident in offering relationship therapy. The course covers different forms of relationship, such as same-sex couples, plus open or polyamorous relationships.
Diversity and Respect Statement
The Grove is committed to the provision of training which is inclusive for participants from a diverse range of professional and cultural backgrounds. The Grove’s diversity policy upholds participation by trainees which respects differences in ability and disability, age, sex, gender diversity, race, religion, culture, and theoretical modality. The Grove’s course terms and conditions provide for each participant being seen, heard and respected during their attendance at course events. These terms are shown in the course contract which every applicant is expected to sign when enrolling; and are described in the course handbook at the start of the training. Any participant may be suspended from the course if their behaviour is deemed by The Grove to be contrary to this statement.
Testimonials from previous course participants:
Excellent. Enjoyable and I feel more confident as a result to start working with couples and taking what I have learnt in to my 1-1 work with clients who bring their relationship and struggles.
Very good notes and material to accompany the theory presented. Cabby’s explanation of theory in relation to the work is second to none. It’s ‘straight up’ and she explains it with ease in a very knowledgeable but approachable way.
Course venueSpiral Therapy Centre 2 Shelburne Road London N7 6DL The entrance to Spiral is actually in Annette Road on the corner with Shelburne Road, at the back of the Waitrose car park.
Spiral Therapy Centre